You Taught Her To Live Without You, So Don’t Be Surprised When She Walks Away

Don’t be surprised when you are not her top priority anymore. You didn’t care about her thoughts, opinions, and feelings. It was always about you: your needs and wants. You treated her like an option, never a priority. You taught her to put her own needs before anything else. You taught her that nothing matters most than her own happiness, herself.

Don’t be surprised when she doesn’t trust you. You didn’t keep her secrets. You lied to her. You broke all the promises.  You played with her heart and broke it. You taught her not to be generous with her love. You taught her to close the door of her heart to you. You taught her how to ignore you and trust someone else.

Don’t be surprised when she clearly says “No” to you. You treated her like a toy. You never wanted to see things from her perspective and understand her. You never wanted to compromise. You thought you will manipulate with her. You thought she is weak. You taught her that she must stand on her own feet. You taught her not to tolerate your bulls*it.

Don’t be surprised when she doesn’t care about you. You didn’t listen to her. You were absent even in your presence. You didn’t support her dreams and goals. You let her hand while going through storms. You let her alone. You taught her how to be icy cold. You taught her not to fight for your love anymore.

Don’t be surprised when she gives up on you. She treated you like a king. She loved you from the core of her heart. She did everything to build a stable, healthy relationship. You made her feel worthless. You made her lose hope. You made her feel like she doesn’t deserve real love. You taught her to plan her future without you.

Don’t be surprised when she doesn’t miss when you’re gone. You ignored her. You didn’t make her feel like a human being. You never made her feel loved. You taught her how to be alone. You taught her to enjoy her own presence. You taught her not to miss you when you’re gone.

Don’t be surprised when she walks away. She is a strong woman. She knows she deserves better and won’t settle for less.

You taught her to stop loving you. You taught her to live without you, and that’s exactly what she is doing…

So, don’t be surprised.

Image: Marat Safin