Why Women Leave The Men They Love: 8 Things Every Man Should Know

Love-a short word with a profound meaning. Love is what makes our world go around. For sure, it’s the fundamental part in any relationship but it isn’t the only one. Love, passion, respect, trust and loyalty -these are all factors which make relationships stronger and last longer.

Love isn’t something to be taken as granted. We all know that every relationship has its ups and downs but you have to know that love needs to be nurtured every single day. The strong flame of love that you felt at the beginning of the relationship needs to be kept alive all the time.

So, how do you do this? Making your woman aware that you’re always there for her, and willing to value, understand, support and stand next to her in all good and bad situations is what it’ll make her appreciate you more.

Unfortunately, the failure to fulfill all this can bring about the end of a relationship. Although women will try to preserve their relationship, there comes a moment when the best thing to do is leave and move on.

Here is a list of 8 reasons for which women decide to leave the men they love:

1. Not being acknowledged by their men can be detrimental

One thing which can really hurt women is when they feel they aren’t understood by their men. She needs to know that she is with a man who will carefully listen to and support her whenever she has a problem or feels sad. You have to pay attention to her and show that you care about everything she’s going through. Additionally, women expect to connect with you at every level. A connection doesn’t mean that you only share emotions with each other, but you also share some responsibilities as well. For example, doing some of the chores for her from time to time can really show that you do care about her and are not only physically present but you’re willing to show understanding, help and keep your relationship healthy.

2. They are experiencing some important changes in life

Dealing with important changes can have a big impact on women’s lives. It’s then when they need support most. Even the basic changes that we all experience in life, like finding a new job or losing somebody we love, can be undergone much more easily if women have your support. It’s not a secret that women are faced with a lot of changes in their midlife at a physical and emotional level. If they feel that they lack your strength, support and encouragement, they’ll prepare to leave you.

3. They don’t want to be compared with other women

We’re all physically and emotionally different, so there is no need comparing women with others. This can be a big problem if you’re comparing them with other women or even worse, with your ex-girlfriends. Telling her that she isn’t beautiful, smart or funny like some other women won’t do any favor to both of you. Don’t forget that she wants you to accept her the way she is.

4. They can stand loneliness

Loneliness can be really tough, especially for women in a relationship. They want you to prove that their decision to choose you was right. They expect from you to show that you are able to follow all the principles necessary for a good and strong relationship. So, don’t forget that your woman is seeing you as somebody who can show her the warmth of your heart, and as somebody who’ll enjoy being next to her and making her feel content and complete.

 5. They feel their man isn’t physically present

Physical absence makes women feel alone. Women like spending good quality time with their men. To achieve this, you’ll have to be physically and mentally present as well. Spending time with her and showing that her opinions and emotions matter to you works the best. However, don’t take this as a strict rule that you aren’t allowed to go out, hang around or drink beer with your friends. However, doing this too often and spending time with your woman only when you just feel like it or you don’t have anything else to do can really harm your relationship.

6. They want men to make them feel attractive and sexy

It isn’t a secret that women enjoy romance. They use this as a good way to connect with their partner physically and emotionally. Keeping the passion alive is important. Women like knowing that they’re still attractive to and desired by their men. If you start losing interest in her or showing more of it in other women, this can deeply hurt her feelings.

7. Women don’t want to predict men’s next step

Women appreciate unpredictability. Doing things which you know always work well and are part of your comfort zone isn’t  recommended. Men are often like this. On the contrary, women enjoy experiencing new things in life every single day, and this continues even as they grow older. They don’t like to feel bored by their men. Instead of always staying on the safe side, try to do things and experience new stuff with more energy, enthusiasm and passion.

8. They don’t have personal space

Having personal space in any relationship is vital. This is what women appreciate a lot. To build a healthy relationship and preserve the mental health, you have to respect your woman’s personal space. Women have the need for space and time in which they can be on their own and do things they like to do. It’s a way in which they can put their thoughts together and get more energy. If you don’t allow your woman to enjoy her personal space, get ready to end up alone.

Image: Rekha Garton