The Only Thing I Regret Is Letting Myself Love You More Than I Loved Myself
The Lonely Farang With Deep-Set Blue Eyes
She doesn’t get attached anymore because attachment is the root of all evil. She realized that attachment is the main relationship killer. She doesn’t get attached anymore because jealousy, selfishness, and neediness bit hear heart. And she won’t let be that person again.
She learned that true love is freeing and selfless while attachment is dangerous and possessive.
She doesn’t get attached anymore because she doesn’t trust people. She learned that not everyone is like her. She doesn’t trust their sweet words. People were throwing poisonous lies about how much they loved her. And the same moment, she got stabbed in the back; she was the victim of their betrayal.
She doesn’t get attached anymore because she is broken from the last few heartbreaks and her scars are still warm and painful.
She doesn’t get attached anymore because everyone leaves. All her exes promised her they would stay with her forever…but they didn’t keep their promises. She learned a life lesson: nothing lasts forever; It comes and goes.
She doesn’t get attached anymore because she knows that many people will enter her life and most of them will leave. And she lets go of everything she fears to lose. Only those who are meant to stay will stay with her no matter what.
She doesn’t get attached anymore because she doesn’t want to be the only one who loves. She is sick and tired of being the only one who cares about people; the only one who respects, appreciates, and loves them.
She doesn’t get attached anymore because she wants other people to treat her the same way she treats them.
She doesn’t get attached anymore because she learned to love herself as well as not to be self-centered. When she got attached, either she focused on her partner and completely forgot about herself and her own needs or she focused on her too much.
She doesn’t get attached anymore because she feels great in her own skin. She learned to love and take care of herself. She learned not to be self-centered and controlling.
She doesn’t get attached anymore because she doesn’t want to settle for less than she deserves. She was treated poorly. She lost her self-confidence trying to please toxic people who didn’t deserve her love; those who didn’t lift a finger to help her.
She doesn’t get attached anymore because she is fully aware of her self-worth and knows that she deserves better.
She doesn’t get attached anymore because she knows the difference between true love and attachment. She doesn’t get attached anymore because she realized that attachment is selfish and controlling while real love is passionate and liberating. Real love has no boundaries.
Real love is hard. That’s what makes it interesting.
After all, what will we lose if we love someone unconditionally and without any attachment?
“You only lose what you cling to.”
Image:Marta Bevacqua
