In the middle of nowhere, a woman and a man met. His eyes were burning with a fire spark of excitement and despise. Her eyes were like the snow – beautiful and silent…as she wanted to say: “Beware, I’m strong, nothing burns like the cold.” A strong woman celebrated her victory over a narcissist.
Narcissistic men often choose strong, confident, and successful women full of life because they see them as a great challenge. These monsters set a trap to control them; they want to suck out the last drop of their positive energy. In a strong woman, they see a trophy and their worst enemy, and they get armed to defeat them.
Strong women are the forbidden fruit narcissists wish to taste… They beat them at their own game.
1. NARCISSISTS ARE CHARMING, BUT STRONG WOMEN ARE NOT NAIVE.
Narcissistic men attract nice women. They shower them with sweet words, compliments, and presents. They’re even ready to give them the Moon and the stars, swearing on eternal love. In fact, they want to get under their skin and use them as a toy to accomplish their goals.
Strong women can sense where the danger comes from. They can see what narcissistic people hide behind their sweetness. Strong women are like detector for lies. Once they sense their fakeness, strong women get rid of them with the speed of the light.
2. NARCISSISTS WEAR DIFFERENT MASKS, BUT STRONG WOMEN SEE THEIR TRUE FACE.
Narcissistic men go to extremes to make women fall in love with them. They play a game of being a victim to get the attention of the woman and awake her empathy.
A strong woman doesn’t melt when she sees a narcissistic man’s sad eyes full of tears. Why should she pity someone who is self-absorbed to bones and plays with others’ emotions? She is a brave woman aware of her own qualities! She is not afraid to say “NO!”
3. NARCISSISTS BLAME OTHERS FOR THEIR MISTAKES, BUT STRONG WOMEN REFUSE TO PLAY THEIR BLAME GAME.
Narcissists love to play their blame game. They set the fire, watch it burn, and blame others for it. They neither accept and admit their mistakes nor apologize for them.
Strong women are responsible for their own mistakes, not the ones of the narcissist. Why should she admit something she is not guilty of? Strong women know when to apologize and for what.
4. NARCISSISTS TEND TO CONVINCE PEOPLE IN THEIR GREAT LOVE, BUT STRONG WOMEN DON’T BELIEVE THEM.
Narcissistic men play the game of being a perfect partner whose love is like a fairytale. They make plans with others, assuring them that their future will be bright.
Strong women believe what they see, not what they hear. Sweet words mean nothing to them. They suspect everything; they want narcissists to prove their words and keep their promises.
A strong woman is not afraid to stand up for herself and confront him. She is ready to win the battle with a narcissistic man once and for all.
5. NARCISSISTS ARE MASTER MANIPULATORS, BUT STRONG WOMEN CAN’T BE MANIPULATED EASILY.
Narcissists are the kings of lies and manipulations. They use people for their own goals.
A strong woman knows the secret to every tiny trick a narcissist wants to play on her. She doesn’t allow a narcissist to control her. She is strong in her opinion and will never do what he wants.
6. NARCISSISTS BRING PEOPLE DOWN, BUT STRONG WOMEN ARE WELL AWARE OF WHO THEY ARE.
Narcissists see themselves as the smartest, most wonderful creatures that breathe on this Earth. They are dominant and bring people down to feel the power of superiority. They make you feel worse, so they can feel better.
A strong woman is fully aware of her strengths and weaknesses. She strives to be better than yesterday. Therefore, a narcissist’s attempts to criticize and embarrass her fall into the water.
7. NARCISSISTS PLAY BY THE RULE “ATTACK IS THE BEST FORM OF DEFENSE”, BUT STRONG WOMEN STAY FOCUSED.
A narcissist lies a lot. A strong woman is allergic to lies. She catches him lying as soon as he opens his mouth. Here the fight starts. And here, he blames her, trying to switch her attention and make her forget what the fight was about.
A strong woman reveals his true face.
A strong woman chooses not to be a victim of a narcissistic abuse.
Never forget: strength lies in each piece of our heart. You are a strong woman. You can defeat the narcissist. You can do it.