8 Signs You’re In Love With Someone Who Doesn’t Deserve You

Sometimes, we fall head over heels in love with someone who doesn’t deserve us. Sometimes, we get stuck in a bad relationship. And we can’t help ourselves but believe that our love is more than enough…Well, it’s not.

A happy, healthy relationship needs two fully committed people who not only take but give. Because love is about unselfish giving. However, some people don’t know how to love. They are so self-absorbed that fail to appreciate all the efforts you put in the relationship.

Here are 8 revealing signs your partner doesn’t deserve your love.

1. They don’t care about your feelings.

Your opinions and needs don’t matter to them. Your partner is rude and makes fun of you. They always criticize and blame you for everything. They make you feel bad about yourself.

Your partner’s poisonous words and actions break your heart, but they don’t care about the way they treat you. Someone who doesn’t give a damn about your feelings certainly doesn’t deserve your love.

2. They don’t respect you.

Your partner doesn’t accept you the way you are. They try to impose their opinions and beliefs on you instead of celebrating your differences. They are neither willing to see things from your perspective nor understand you.

They assure you that they love you, but, what is love without respect?

3. They are never there when you need them.

You are always there to hear, help, and comfort your partner. However, when you need them…S. I. L. E. N. C. E – they disappear.

Well, actions speak more than words. When your partner shows you that they don’t care about you – trust them.

4. They put other people before you.

Your partner never has time for you, but they enjoy making plans to spend time with their family and friends. It’s always about them. Where do you see yourself here?

You are never their top priority; you always end up second, treated as an option. Moreover, your partner has never introduced you to the people they care about.

5. They don’t support you in your dreams and goals.

Your partner is never proud of your achievements. Instead of encouraging you to fight for your dreams and pursue your goals, they bring you down. What’s worse: they compete with you.

You’re in love with someone who doesn’t support your personal growth. That’s unhealthy. That person doesn’t deserve your love.

6. The relationship is all about them.

Your partner is selfish. They’re the center of attention, totally dominating the relationship. It’s all about them: their opinions, needs, and wants.

Do you see yourself as the only one who puts an effort for your relationship to succeed? Isn’t a relationship supposed to be a teamwork?

7. They lie and cheat.

You catch your partner lying as soon as they open their mouth. They become secretive while receiving tons of calls. And when you ask them whom they were talking to, they become defensive and confused.

One lie is followed by another and followed by another one, and you get caught in a never-ending vicious circle of manipulations. They break your trust.

8. They treat you like a doormat.

They step on your pride with dirty shoes.

They play with your heart without any concern of hurting it.

They leave a total mess behind them and never look back to clean it.

Make sure you don’t waste your time being with someone who doesn’t deserve you because no matter how hard you try and what you do for your partner, they will never appreciate your love.

You deserve to be with someone who will treat you the way you treat them. You deserve to be loved the right way. Don’t settle for anything less.

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