Love is anywhere around us. It can even be in the least expected places and it’s up to us to start paying attention to it more carefully.
It’s very easy to decide whether you love a person who you already know or will ever meet. The real question is: how do you know that this person has the same feelings for you?
We can all agree that when we’re interested in somebody, we always do things, consciously or not, which show our feelings for them. That’s why we need to learn to read correctly the revealing signs of other people’s behavior.
Here is a list of 8 signs that someone is attracted to you:
1. This person makes eye contact with you
Trying to establish eye contact with somebody is a good way to show that you’re interested in them. In a study on the relation between eye gaze and love and lust, respectively, researchers said that it’s important reading the eyes of other people in the process of interaction. They also suggested that you can tell if someone is attracted to you or not by their eye gaze.
Eyes are important because they reveal everything about us. Making eye contact can be difficult to achieve but if we’re trying to win someone’s heart, then eye contact happens spontaneously.
According to this, if you can feel that a person is gazing into your eyes, don’t doubt that he/she is very attracted to you.
2. This person looks nervous when they are around you.
When we’re around people we aren’t attracted to, we don’t act nervously. Yet, those who we’re interested in definitely make us feel nervous when they’re around us.
So, you should bear in mind that the person who likes you will show different signs of nervousness. For example, when you’re talking with each other, this person can start taking deep breaths or fidgeting. Also, you can’t help but notice that your presence makes them get sweaty palms and that they immediately look away when you catch them looking at you.
3. This person uses body language.
Non-verbal language, such as that of the body can reveal to us if a person has an interest in us. Therefore, we should always try to pay more attention to the signs other people send us through their bodily movements.
There are many different ways in which someone’s posture or the way in which they move parts of their bodies can show if they’re attracted to us. For example, if you notice that a person is leaning toward you, smiles more, doesn’t slouch, and care that there’s nothing bad about their clothes, you can be sure this person is trying to get into your heart.
4. This person carefully listens to you.
A good way of showing somebody our feelings of affection for them is by listening to them attentively.
We’re daily faced with all kinds of things which distract our attention. Yet, when we want to win somebody’s heart, we make that person our focus and get rid of all the unnecessary distractions.
If a person has fallen for you, they will carefully listen to every word that you say since what you say matters to them.
5. This person treats you differently.
The person who is interested in you will treat you in a different way from the way they treat other people. If you happen to notice that somebody behaves differently towards you, there’s definitely something going on there.
There’re various occasions in which you can see if somebody treats you differently from other people. For example, if a person begins to sit closer to or behave protectively towards you whenever they can, it’s a sign they have fallen for you.
Another good way to check if a person is interested in you is flirting. Both women and men like flirting with other people. However, if there’s a situation in which you notice that looking at you and trying to get your reaction is what they more focus on while they are flirting with somebody else, you can be sure this person is so into you.
6. This person brings your favorite things to you.
When we’re attracted to somebody, we also start having an interest in the things they like. Although it may look unusual to you, the person who’s interested in you will try to find out what things you like, and bring them to you. So, don’t be surprised if they bring you a cup of your favorite coffee or your most favorite book.
By expressing interest in the things you like, this person shows that they care about and have feelings for you.
7. This person is always giving you compliments.
When we’re attracted to a person, we all want to make them aware of it. We want to make them know that we admire them. Giving compliments is one way to do that.
There’re different ways in which one can give you compliments. If the person who likes you don’t compliment you directly, they can do that through post-it notes, e-mails, text messages, or on the social networks.
Compliments can have a strong impact on us and win our attention. They can also make us feel better if they are honest and said with love.
Don’t have doubts that a person wants to reveal their love for you if they are constantly complimenting you.
8. This person shows an interest in your pastimes.
One easy way to show somebody we like them is by making them aware that we’re interested in the same things which they enjoy doing. The person who likes you will stop at nothing to find out what your favorite hobbies are.
It isn’t surprising that they can even try liking something they haven’t had an interest in before.
We can all agree that the person who has the same interests as we do can get our attention and win our love.