Alfa woman – sounds so powerful, doesn’t it? If you’ve ever met such a woman, I’m sure you couldn’t have helped but notice how her character and behavior in her relationships make her different from the rest of the female world.
This badass woman is smart, independent, confident, and competitive. She’s driven, ambitious, and a real fighter who isn’t afraid to pursue all her ambitious goals and dreams. There isn’t success she can’t achieve. She doesn’t have time to think about, let alone worry about what other people think or say about her. She invests herself emotionally in her relationships, but she also knows when to walk away.
When it comes to alpha women and their relationships, the following questions can arise: how should men who want to date or are already dating an alpha woman behave? Or do they have to change their behavior and make sacrifices? Or should they treat such a woman differently from other women? It takes a lot of courage and willingness to know how to keep an alpha woman because her fierce character makes her intolerant of many things in a relationship. Yet, the dating experience with an alpha woman is the most unforgettable and valuable experience and she’s worth all the effort.
So, if you want to keep this extraordinary woman, make sure she never experiences the following 11 things that she will never ever tolerate.
Here they are:
1. Being controlled.
This is a no-no. This badass woman is a master of her own life and nobody can control her, let alone her partner. Her freedom and independence are her most notable traits. If you don’t want her to show you the door, make sure you never tell her what things to do or not do, where to go, and never attempt to influence her decisions.
This woman is fierce. She’s smart and won’t let anyone diminish her intelligence. She’s able to detect all manipulation techniques and will never consent to play your wicked mind games. You should know that the moment you try to deceive or talk her into doing things she doesn’t like, you’ll lose her.
3. Being disrespected.
Disrespect is out of the question. She’s more than aware of her self-worth and knows how to defend herself. If you try to underestimate her importance, bring her down, lie to or insult her, she won’t give you a second chance. Nobody deserves to be treated this way, and don’t doubt she won’t let go of you if she notices you don’t respect her.
4. Being blamed undeservedly.
She isn’t afraid to own up to her mistakes and take responsibility for all her actions. Yet, this doesn’t mean she’ll let you blame her for things she hasn’t done. If you try to project your setbacks, wrongdoings, and failures onto her or lay the blame at her door, you can be sure she’ll never allow to be your scapegoat.
5. Being lied to or cheated.
WHAT? This woman has a sixth sense-she can sense lies and betrayal miles away. If you believe you can tell her blatant lies or cheat on her and expect that all this will pass unnoticed, you’re so wrong. Honesty and loyalty are very important qualities she appreciates in a man and she can’t stand being in a relationship with someone who is deceitful, unscrupulous, and disloyal.
Don’t let your excuses turn into a habit. She knows which of your excuses are legitimate and show that you’re truly sorry for your mistakes and wrongdoings. All the other excuses which don’t fit into this category she discards without giving them a second thought.
Occasional and reasonable jealousy is something she can handle easily and even appreciate it as a sign of love. Yet, if you’re constantly jealous, reprimand her for her actions or try to control where she goes and who she hangs out with, she’ll see this as nothing else but a sign of your insecurity. This woman will make sure you know she’s loyal to you and deserves your trust. Yet, remember that she has no intention to show and repeat this every single day to you and to tolerate your unnecessary pangs of jealousy.
Just because an alpha woman is independent, confident, and strong doesn’t mean that she doesn’t need the support of her partner. If you aren’t there when she is down in the dumps (yeah, even she can experience bad things), or needs your help, she won’t like it at all. Similarly, if you’re constantly opposing and criticizing her and aren’t acknowledging or praising her achievements, she won’t hesitate to finish her story with you.
9. A partner who avoids taking responsibility.
This woman can’t stand making problems unnecessarily so she always tries to behave responsibly. She expects you to behave in the same manner. If you pretend you don’t notice your own mistakes and wrong actions or even worse, try to put the blame on her, it won’t take her long to put you in her past.
10.A flaky partner.
Devoting time, attention, and energy to a partner who behaves in a strange or unexpected way is not a part of this badass woman’s plans. She has to know she can rely on you anytime. So, if you’ve arranged a meeting with her on Saturday night, make sure you don’t cancel it at the last moment. This is something she won’t definitely tolerate.
11. Being used by you.
After all that has been said, do you really believe she would allow you or anyone else to take advantage of her and then leave her after she’s no longer needed? Yeah, I know you don’t.
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